What a Difference a Day Makes - Part Dos

...following B's lead.

Hairy Legs...They come and they grow...What to do?  Shave every day?  I try...But, sometimes it's just too damn cold and I don't want razer burn...So, I let them go a lil...until they're itchyish...you know the feeling?  I mean if I'm going to tell the truth...truth be told...I don't ALWAYS shave every day.  But, man when I do...Man I like the feeling! 

(Okay, my legs don't look like this-ever...but, I bet you laughed a little.)



Meet one day...and marry the next...Although not for me...I'm sure it's been done (B, knows someone), But, I kinda like that you fall in love one day....and you didn't expect it...you weren't looking...and BAM! You're all twitterpated and everything! 

(  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXBbgzQmpJw    - Bambi)

The birth of your child is most definately a life changing experience...I think I'll even go back a smidge further...When you find out you're pregnant.  I mean...I remember each time...what settles into your heart right away is...that it's real...and it's happening...and you are responsible.  I don't mean like you weren't responsible...But, there's something out there larger than you...You are responsible for another person's life.  You hold so much in your heart and soul...what you eat, what you drink, getting enough sleep, calming your being, and nesting...getting ready for another change for when that bundle comes.  Yes, what a difference a '+' makes!

Uh oh!  Well, I'd have to say...Yes, you're married one day and six months later (or longer), your divorce is final.  Sad.  Divorce no matter if it's amicable or not...is one ugly occurance.  I wish divorce on not a soul.  People, there are sacred experiences in our lives that we as humans sometimes take for granted...and when decisions or mistakes are made, the consequence is greater than one could ever expect-the ripple affect is what takes the greatest toll.  Nobody knows what to do or say...So, remember to love deeply, live out loud & live your dash~with your spouse.  And...if you have children...they always come first - No matter what!

(Love now...cause there will be a time for 'Remember When'- Alan Jackson beautiful...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTA2buWlNyM&feature=relmfu   )

Dream home...Yes, you can be on the edge of your seat waiting to see if you've out bid the last guy...Do we get that house payment?  Where will we plant our first fruit tree?  Can we have our kids write their name in the sidewalk concrete, and have it be there for our grandchildren?  Yes, the dream home, dream never ends...

True DAT B...at home doing chores one day...and the next on a flight to somewhere tropical? Or exciting?...Vacation! Maybe in the family truxter!???? (Pea Green no less!)  and off to Wally World!

The cash flow got you down?  Low on the green stuff?  Looking for that pot of gold at the end of a rainbow?   Doubling down while playing 21- what's the difference anyhow?  You're either broke or flat broke-Thumbing it home?  Maybe you'd win the jackpot at the slots? Or maybe you've played the horses and bet on 'Absolute Ace of Spades' and he won the race!  Whatever it might be that luck be by your side...I wish it for you...

and friends remember...this

You may always find someone in a more difficult place than yourself...Instead of wallowing - Look to help another, face, and conquer theirs...

...send a anonymous letter to a soldier...

Agreed...the weight comes and goes...if it stays we don't want it...When it goes we rejoice...So, even though I fall prey to this...I ask you and myself...to love yourself this moment...for today is truly a gift...and I'm happy you're in it with me.

And something that is consistently true...no matter the day or the difference...

Dear Dr. B,
Thanks for always brightening my days...and making me smile.  I love you with all of my heart.
Love, Ice T

(Imagine that being passed over in note form, in the dark, late at night...like when we were kids.)

Love Deeply, Live Out Loud, & Live Your Dash,

T





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